This morning was a rushed one. Hustling to get the HAWK off to his second to last day of school. His need to have Legos in his hands at all times slows us down a great deal. I found myself a few minutes late to a client meeting. We've only had this client for a short time...still getting to know her. After reviewing her upcoming trade show and marketing needs the conversation fell to children. She chose to share with me that she has a son who is eight years old, whom she adopted from Russia. He is autistic and suffers serious mental retardation and self-injurous behaviors. I told her about our plans to adopt from China. We talked for awhile and settled on a phrase that often runs through my mind...Everything happens for a reason, though we may never know or understand that reason. Despite being a single mother who works full time she says she's grateful to have him in her life. She worries that if he wasn't with her he would have been abandoned on the streets of Russia.
At the end of an unusual day, I am left grateful for my life, my family and my unknown reasons in the mysteries of life.
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"She worries that if he wasn't with her he would have been abandoned on the streets of Russia."
Isn't that the mark of a mother? Certainly, when we are adopting (and probably when pregnant, as well), we have fears that our children will be "less than" we wish. But once we have them, what really matters is that they are as much as they can be -- and, in equal parts, that we are too.
I was also thinking about your earlier post -- where you are wondering if China truly has a great need for adoptive parents. YES! YES! YES! It's just that the orphanages are so strapped for resources, that too many kids aren't "paper-ready." They are, however, "parent-ready." Have faith.
What age did you request, by the way???
Melissa
Very Lucky Mama to Kate
Thanks for your perspective, Melissa. I know you remember the wait and how your mind can play games with you. I just wonder how there can be limited resources in China, especially when resources in this case are people.
We requested under 18 months at the recommendation of our agency. I am fully aware that it is only a request and that she may be older. I think that will be fine too. As I said, everything happens for a reason.
Also, I was glad to see Kate is eating.
Caroline
Just noticed my link is on your blog. It will be nice to know more people nearby going through the same thing. Email me... floridafliss@yahoo.com
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