
It was one year ago today that I posted "We are the Luckiest Family" . This morning as we were heading out the door for school, I had to fight back tears thinking about how grateful I am to have Jack in our lives. Lucky seems like such a trivial word in comparison to the unbelievable joy and goodness that he has given us. I wanted to think of a way to celebrate, but I wasn't sure what would help him know it was a special day. Last night I did make some cupcakes for Jack and his buddies at school to enjoy. For a three-year-old cupcakes mean celebration. When we walked into the classroom he excitedly pointed to the cupcakes and signed his name over and over, as if to tell his friends, "Jack brought cupcakes!"
Driving to work I thought about how much he has learned and experienced in the last year. He's gone from the little boy I saw in the window of the Civil Affairs office in Nanning to the smiling face that wakes me up every morning. I can remember thinking that he was a happy boy when we were in China, but knowing him better now I can see that he was holding back, hesitating and checking things out. I see the cautious face very rarely with him. He's a daredevil for sure, but at the same time a survivor.
He's gained 6 lbs. and 2 inches since China.
He understands English very well.
He clearly says, "Momma" and "No".
He knows more than 40 words in sign language.
He's potty trained (woohoo).
He sleeps through the night (most nights).
He completed two surgeries to build a cleft palate.
He hums the theme from Star Wars when we drive in the car.
He makes a pretend burp sound to make his brother laugh.
He raises his eyebrows up and down to make his mommy laugh.
He sommersaults and bounces with his Nana every Friday in gymnastics.
He helps his daddy feed the puppy every morning.
He loves birdwatching, bike riding, swimming, running and eating cookies.
He lives every day with an unmatched joy!

4 comments:
CONGRATULATIONS to the entire family on such a landmark event! Indeed one to be celebrated. May you all experience continued blessings large and small!
Love, Marianne
Marianne,
Thank you! We are so grateful for all our blessings.
Always good to hear from you,
Caroline
XOXO
Caroline, I've followed your blog since before you travelled to meet Jack. I loved reading about boys from China, knowing that one day we too would be united with our son. In May, we reviewed his file and eagerly sent LOA... Waited a long summer to travel in late October, and were united with our beautiful boy in November. We've been home now for 4 months and I have to say that Jack's story...your trip to China, his homecoming, how well he has adapted to life, family, friends, surgery...Well, it helped me more than I could ever express. Thank you for sharing your story.
Happy 1 year Jack! It's a big deal. A big BIG deal!
Congrats to your whole family. Wishing you many more years of cupcake celebrations!
-Steph
Steph,
Your post brought tears to my eyes. Thank you so much for what you said and congratulations on your son.
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